Dylan, we can't wait for the ideal to move forward.
Kissinger understood this and accommodated China over Taiwan, which resulted in fifty years of extraordinary achievements.
Millions of Chinese were lifted from poverty. China and Taiwan enjoyed spectacular growth, and America benefitted enormously.
The issue with Taiwan remains.
We need talent to successfully manage the America/China relationship for the decades ahead. Unfortunately, we are not doing so great. I invite you to read "America Is Hurt by Its Poor Relationship with China."
Kissinger kept priorities in strict order and offered excellent risk assessment. The two went awry with Jimmy Carter, returned with Reagan and HW Bush, awry with GW Bush, Trump, and currently with Biden.
Many thanks. Best.